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Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Tuesdays around the world


I just feel that it is one thing after another here right now.
Today was so stinking hot and when we should be getting super excited about Christmas we were told on Friday that my Father in law has a Brain Tumor. He will be operated on on 21st December.
So while we are out shopping and being Merry, inside I could burst with sadness. These two beautiful children are too young to loose their Grandad - and I know he is not going out with a fight. so we keep praying for healing.


Amalie's prayer in class prayer time on Monday:

Dear Baby Jesus,
Please look after my Grandad because his brain stopped and I would like it to work again. Thats it.
Amen

Linking up with all the lovely ladies at:

Monday, December 5, 2011

Cute little feet....


No need to say anything else!
I'm linking up here for the first time EVER!


Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Tuesdays around the world - The dress...


My husband bought me a dress.
I had tried it on and asked him to drive past and check it out as the mannequin was wearing it in the window.
He just went in and bought it for me. Something he never does. But I am thankful that he did as I now have a dress to wear to Staff Christmas party on Friday night, then I can wear it again on Monday night to a dinner (different people), then the following Saturday to husbands work party (again different people) and then why not wear it Christmas Day! Yay!! It it only cost $76!! So I can dress it up with boots etc for night and then just with sandals for Christmas (shoes are not normally compulsory on Christmas Day - too hot)

What do you think of it? Its actually something I wouldn't normally buy but I think I love it!

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Its hard work carrying around a cast...


Oliver today out on the lawn taking a much needed rest. Carrying around his heavy cast isn't stopping him from being active but he gets so worn out! A little rest in the sun was needed.
Do you love the bright green cast?

Monday, November 21, 2011

Meth babies doing worse here than in the US


OK.. so those that don't know, when we were first rung to see if we wanted to adopt Amalie they said there was a slight "problem" being that she had been exposed to "P" in the womb. My heart sunk. I didn't want a "P baby", this wasn't in my plan of having a perfect baby girl - oh how naive was I!
We did as much research as we could in the days that followed and back then - 5 years ago there actually wasn't alot of factual information at all. So we took the chance. When she was born we had a specialist Dr check her over (not sure what I thought he would find - two heads maybe!! Oh how Naive!) he said "as far as I can see, in my professional opinion, at this stage in her life, there seems to be nothing wrong" OK I know he was kind of trying to cover his tracks.
Anyway to make a long story short this was published in the weekend and its an interesting read:


The first generation of New Zealand babies exposed to methamphetamine in the womb is reaching school age, and researchers are finding they are worse affected than babies in the United States.

Auckland University senior lecturer Dr Trecia Wouldes co-authored a study comparing 120 New Zealand women who used methamphetamine while pregnant to a group of US drug mothers.

New Zealand's methamphetamine is reportedly purer and stronger than the American form, and the New Zealand newborns were found to have worse scores for central nervous system stress and reflexes responses.

There were also more babies born with "hypertonicity" and "hypotonicity" – babies that are either too floppy or too rigid.

Central nervous system stress was indicated by higher than average hiccuping, spitting up, and very tight blinking.

"It's a sign your central nervous system has been affected by something," Wouldes said.

She said studies of older children exposed to methamphetamine in the womb showed changes in brain structure, particularly in areas that governed "executive functions" linked to learning.

At about age four, there started to be "significant differences in IQ and functional ability to learn" caused by inability to concentrate, sit quietly and "attend" to lessons.

Wouldes said she began enrolling babies in her study five years ago and some of the older ones were "definitely" showing signs of developmental difficulty.

The 120 mothers in the study all came from Auckland and Waitakere and were referred by midwives and neo-natal carers.

Of those referred, many had to be ruled out as too young, or for using too many other drugs.

Wouldes said prevalence of meth use during pregnancy was hard to gauge but one indicator was the difficulty in finding non-drug using mothers to use as a control group.

"In young mothers, 17 and 18, without NCEA qualifications, we couldn't find enough mothers who didn't use meth," Wouldes said. "Every time we'd find a mother who didn't have NCEA, she'd be using meth."

Though children of methamphetamine users were showing learning disabilities, Wouldes said it was too early to attribute it purely to the drug. "Our mothers are using more cannabis, smoking more and using meth throughout their pregnancies more than in the US," Wouldes said.

Also, alcohol was still New Zealand's biggest drug problem, she said, with 60 per cent of the methamphetamine mothers drinking through pregnancy, 13 per cent drinking "heavily".

The study also found 87 per cent smoked cigarettes and 64 per cent used marijuana while pregnant.
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- Sunday Star Times

So I know our situation is different in the fact that Amalie didnt stay in the "meth scene" as I imagine these babies have as she goes against everything they have said here. Thankfully.
She is reading way above her age and spelling and writing flat out.
Go Amalie!

So a little heavy for this Tuesday but just something I am thinking about!


Sunday, November 13, 2011

Ouch!







You know that scream that all mums hate to hear - that loud pitch scream that shouldn't come from a 8 year old boy, well I heard it today. Having a great time celebrating our nephews third birthday and then screaming. I actually didnt hear it
at first (hate to admit it!) but it wasn't a sound I thought I would hear from my children - ever.
We all raced over and asked for the First Aid person - the staff all looked at us blankly OK thats not the response I wanted. We opted to just take him straight to A&E and 4 hours later we emerged with a broken elbow and a white cast!!
Oliver was mega brave and is ready for bed!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Step away from the Blogs!!

Not all blogs, just those ones that make me feel inadequate! You know the ones....the amazing photographer that perfect light just seems to follow them around, their brides all look like they have stepped right off the runway in there $3000 heels and designer dresses. Oh and did I mention those chiseled out features on their grooms that are in the next GQ magazine....ok ok you may think I am a little green over here and in all honesty I am, BUT I am comparing myself to people who do this every day of their lives! They don't have to arrange things around cricket practice and or making cakes for the school bake sale. Maybe just maybe I might pick up the odd PAID photographer job 4-5 times a year so why do I compare my self to people who do it every single day?
Because I do,and that's who I am.
Will I step away from the blogs? Nope. But I will go back through my photos and remember why I took them, for memories!! And how cute... a brother and sister spending time together on the beach



Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Tuesdays around the world


Thank you everyone for your kind words in my previous post. Even though I had a feeling she was deaf it was still a shock and we have since learnt that is only in her right middle ear. We are thankful and eagerly await her next appointment with her specialists.

I wish I knew how to email you directly back when you leave a comment....any advice is appreciated.! :)

Have a great Tuesday everyone! Do you love my caterpillar?


Thursday, October 27, 2011

My sweet girl.... is deaf


I have had a "mummy feeling" for a wee while now but I shrugged it off. Then at her before school Dr's visit she failed her hearing in her right ear. We went back yesterday and she failed again. So today we went to the Dr and he has referred us to the Ears, nose and throat department. He is worried about her terrible snoring (her snoring sounds like an 80 year old man!) and thinks it could be her adenoids. So again we wait but because we have medical insurance (remember its totally optional here in NZ and a large percentage don't have it) we hope to be seen in the next few weeks. Fingers crossed

Friday, October 21, 2011

Before and after


So you all know I am useless on Photoshop. I think I only now about 5% of what it actually does. I don't even know what a layer is!
But I downloaded MCP Mini Quick Clicks presets http://www.mcpactions.com/lightroom-presets.html and again I admit that I didn't even know that presets existed!! But they are so fun and easy
The above photo is honestly opened in ACR then click on Cloudy day white balance and then click on Light bright and its done!!
LOVE!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Tuesdays around the world




So you know when I agreed to let my husband pay the $400 for a Rugby World Cup ticket to the Semi finals - whoop whoop go ALL BLACKS!!! I did not realise that his face would end up on the sports page of newspapers all over the world!
Oh yes that's my husband - what a proud wife moment - NOT!


Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Photo tip Tuesday



Live, Love, TRAVEL


So I found a new blog that I love! And thought I would link up to their link party. I don't have much to offer but thought that this might interest someone.
I love this photo of my daughter and love the colour straight out of camera version but then I came across "My four Hens" - (I so wish I knew how to do the link back things!)
Anyway, I bought her 'Matchstick' set and this one is called *Superb* I think it gives a whole new look to this photo! And the set of actions was only US$8 - only NZ$10.40

Tuesdays around the world - Rugby world cup


So if you have not heard the Rugby World Cup is on at the moment here in New Zealand. My lounge has been taken over with flags from 20 other nations and of course our All Black flag and All Black balloons. Oh did I mention we have an All Black flag sticking out of our palm tree on the front lawn and one flying from my car!! Now before you think we are total freaks half of New Zealand look like this.
We are cheering on the All Blacks in the semi final this weekend and Greg is going - ticket cost nearly a fortnights pay!!! Oliver is desperate to go but I have told him that one day we will go from green and white striped jerseys to an All Black one and Mummy and Daddy will be hoping for free tickets to go watch him play!

I am also a bit obsessed with all the Halloween craft that I am seeing on other peoples blogs. We don't really do Halloween here but it is fun and interesting to see all the great craft ideas

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

GLASSES....

This is what she looked like the first time we were looking for glasses.


And this is her now.
So I think we have decided on these ones. I took her outside to photograph her in them again today and my heart sank as every photo had a sun reflection in the glasses. I am not sure why I am so upset about her wearing them again as it will help her so much. Its just silly Mummy not liking change.
So this is what we are doing today - Tuesday - what is everyone else doing???

Monday, October 3, 2011

Back to glasses


Well, we had the eye Dr today and we are back in glasses. I am gutted. I don't know why as she needs to be able to see I just feel she has loss some freedom. I don't know.
Still deciding which ones to get My favourite are number 2 as they have butterflies down the arm bit.
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Sunday, October 2, 2011

Happy Birthday to me!!


Happy Birthday to me! Yip it was my birthday yesterday.
Had a lovely quite day and managed to snap this quick photo - we both look terrible of my sister and I as we are now the same age for 6 days! Thats me in the blue in case you couldn't work it out!

Monday, September 26, 2011

I know, two posts in one day BUT


She's been at school for 1 month and she is in the top 4% of New Zealand new entrant children!! Go Amalie!!
She was tested on her first day of school and then again after a week!

First Holy communion

So we finally made it through all our course and Oliver made his first Holy Communion on Sunday. It was really low key and lovely. Here a just a couple of photos from the day.





Sunday, September 11, 2011

9/11

I will never forget.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Did you hear me squeal with excitment!!

Never.
Never, have I found anything like this at a secondhand shop before. I always see blogs where people have amazing finds at secondhand stores and then add a little paint and make it super cute. I NEVER have such luck until a couple of weeks ago I drove past the Sallies store and nearly jammed on the brakes as I saw this sitting outside in all its yellow uglyness.
$10!!!!
So with a about 3 coats of paint, a little bit of wallpaper, a tea set and felt food this is what Amalie got for her 5th birthday. Do you love it??? I do. Maybe even more than she does!




Tea and biscuits anyone??
Or maybe a lettuce, tomato and cheese sandwich??
This si my first EVER craft link up and I am a little bit excited. Please leave me a comment so I can come visit your blog too!
Todays Creative Blog

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Tuesdays around the world



Yip we made it!!! We made it to five!!
Last day of kindy

Our tiny little baby girl turned into a
Beautiful 5 year old

School is going great - even though its only day 2!

Time sure has flown by this past 5 years.