As a young couple 24/25yrs, we didn't think there would be a problem having children but after months of trying we discovered that we were unable to have children and so chose to go down the adoption path. We did not want to do IVF - and that was our choice - not the same for everyone.
We did our course, who knew I had to learn about this stuff! And we researched heaps on what adoption would be like.
We sat back and waited. And waited. 13 months past. Oh I know, why dont I enroll in a course, great idea!!! Then.....
The phone call that changed our lives forever came on the 12 November 2002. Greg was on his way to a school camp and I was in the middle of a maths lesson with 5 year olds and I heard the words you always wanted to hear "There's a baby for us!"
Holy Crap!!! Is this a good idea!
Oliver was due the 10th December 2002. We met both his birthparents and his birth Grandmother a month before hand. It was all very over whelming and we had decided to keep it as a secret - not telling our families until the day we bought him home. Of course Oliver was over due but on the 17th December he was delivered my cesarean straight into my arms. Something that I am so thankful for - to be at his birth was amazing.
The days that followed were filled with lots of secret visits to the maternity ward to see our darling baby and then on the 30th December we could bring him home. It was all way to emotional as we thanked and hugged his birth parents. There are no words to describe our gratitude to them. We drove all the way back to my parents house to surprise them - WOW were they surprised. The months that followed were great. We had frequent visits with Oliver's birth family and he just fitted into our lives like he had always been there.
When Oliver turned 3 we decided to have another go and put our names back in the pool. We were not expecting a response so soon and had booked a holiday for 3 to Rarotonga. Could we be taking a 4th member of our family away too?
Amalie May was born on the 28th August 2006. We met her when she was 4 days old and just longed to take her there and then!! On the 8th August we made the 2 and half hour drive to collect her. It was amazing. Again we hadn't told our families so the whole way home we were on the phone ringing them and sharing our good news.
We have contact with Amalie's birth mother via emails which is wonderful. We send her photos and updates of Amalie's milestones. Unfortunately due to NZ laws (damn you NZ courts) we were unable to take her to Rarotonga so we change our tickets and all 4 of us went when she was 4 months old!! An had an amazing time together as a family.
We will be forever thankful to our children's birth families. If it wasn't for them we would be childless an never know how much love we still had to give. They will always hold a very special place in our hearts.
My Montage 10/20/09
3 comments:
I loved reading your story on the adoptions of your two beautiful children. Our name is in the pool for our second. We are looking forward to welcoming another little one to our family and a brother or sister for our precious daughter. Thanks for reading my blog and leaving me such a sweet note.
You have such a heart warming story of your two children coming home. What wonderful blessings.
My husband and I also have hearts for adoption and hope to bring little ones home one day soon.
All the best, Eve
I know this is an older post but I really enjoyed reading it. What a precious and moving adoption story. We have also adopted and are beginning a new process and I always am eager to read everything I can on the process.:)
I came over from Life With Kaishon by the way.:) You have a great blog here and a lovely family!
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